Denise's Discourse: Mondays

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

Mondays

Most people dread Mondays since the work or school week begins again. Since my job as a SAHM doesn't give me any time off (much less two whole days a week) Monday's aren't particularly exciting for me...or so I thought.

Yesterday was the first Monday in a long time that we didn't spend with my father. Monday's are generally his day off from work and the boys and I would usually run errands with him or hang out and go to lunch. Sometimes he would babysit. (Ok, it honestly wasn't every Monday but it was nice to know that we had the option to see him because he was right down the street.) Anyway, now that we live 8 hours away that isn't possible anymore. So, even though yesterday was such a busy day, I still felt like something was missing. I miss you Daddy!

FYI - Last night was the big night. Jimmy actually posted on his blog. Check it out and leave a comment. If he gets enough response, MAYBE he will post again this year! And for all of you who think that he is so sweet to write what he did about me in his About Me section: I wrote that! I thought it was obvious, but I guess not. I mean, I am amazing and he is a good husband, but come on people!

7 comments:

Anonymous said...: You will make your dad cry with that comment. He is missing his time with you and the boys. Love, Mom; June 3, 2008 at 12:37 PM
Corinne said...: Ha! I wish I could spend as much time with my dad as you were able to before. I'll have to check out Jimmy's blog :); June 3, 2008 at 4:33 PM
Malin said...: Welcome to the club..my parents live across the Atlantic Ocean and my in-laws in FL. It sucks! It's wonderful that he has been able to spend so much time with his grandsons previously, and I'm sure it will shape the people they will become. If you don't have already, maybe webcams would be worth an investment?

Malin; June 3, 2008 at 6:20 PM
Anonymous said...: Well here I am 8 hours away. I really looked forward to spending time with you and the boys. Mondays won't be the same. Miss you alot already. I will have to visit as soon as possible after a visit to England to see Kim and Drew and my first granddaughter. Jack and Luke will be growing and I will miss out but will visit soon and look forward to your visit July 5th. Love you, Dad; June 3, 2008 at 7:36 PM
Scott and Megan said...: how cute...that makes me sad that you are away from your folks. I have some friends that are moving to Ann Arbor for law school. i think you are wonderful!; June 4, 2008 at 5:07 PM
couplabz said...: That is so awesome that Jackson has those memories and built the foundation of a great relationship with his Grandpa. Reading what you wrote reminded me of why we moved here to be close to Patrick's parents. I can only hope that Eli and Dayle will have as many wonderful experiences to look back on as Jackson obviously will. Your boys are lucky to have such doting grandparents.; June 5, 2008 at 1:07 PM
Anonymous said...: I love reading your posts, I have tried to leave replies before but haven't been able to I will try once again. Wish me luck! I do read them all the time. Love to all Aunt Sue; June 8, 2008 at 9:01 PM

FROM THE LITTLE MAN'S MOUTH...

Jackson constantly makes me chuckle at the things he says. Here are some of the things I get to hear each day:

2/2011
After one of the very few times I had a burp and right after my parents left after coming to visit:
J: You have your father's burp.

8/3/2020
D: Your uncle is getting really skinny, he's been on a diet.
J: Why?
D: Because he wants to be more healthy.
J: Maybe you should try it.
D: Why?
J: No reason, no reason.
D: Maybe Daddy should try it.
J: No, Daddy is skinny enough.

7/30/2010
While I am jammin' in the car to my girl Mylie Cyrus:
L: Shub up, Mommy.
D: Luke, in our family we don't say shut up. That's not nice.
J: What he's trying to say is that you need to be quiet. You are not a very good singer and you can't dance.
D: If I can't sing, why did I get into a high school for kids who are singers? And, I CAN dance. I was on a dance team and we went to the National Championship. We came in 19th place out of the whole USA.
J: 19th place? Was your trophy the size of an ant?

7/15/2010
After Luke asked, "Who is Jimmy?"
J: Jimmy is Daddy. But you can call him Cornelius.

5/2010
While my sister was visiting and I was singing in the car:
J: Was mom this annoying when she was growing up?

8/30/09
Just after I found Jackson crossing the street on his own:
D: What would happen if you got hit by a car and died?
J: I would get to see Jesus and then be a kid in heaven.
D: But Daddy and I would be SO sad.
J: You're young, you can have more children.

4/26/09
We were invited to have dinner with a family that we don't know very well in the neighborhood. While eating a dessert of brownies with the sweet (Caucasian) family:
J: My Dad LOVES brownies ... that's because he is brown.

3/7/09
After attending the Father/Son bowling banquet at school:
J: Daddy, my friend said that he didn't know my Daddy was black.
B: What did you say?
J: I said that he isn't black, he's BROWN!

2/28/09
On a rainy day when I wore my hair curly to church while pregnant:
J: You look just like my Aunt (who has curly hair), when she used to be fat.

2/12/09
D: What do you think about moving to a new house down the street?
J: Why?
D: Because we could save money and it is in better shape.
J: Oh, so it is a square, ok.

12/08
After Mommy told him not to do something:
J: You NEVER let me eat junk food.
D: Well, I have to make sure you are healthy and take care of you.
J: Daddy can take care of me.
D: But Daddy has to go to work.
J: We can get a babysitter.
D: But then you would have to stay with someone that you don't even know.
J: I know, we could get a robot to be our mommy!

10/29/08
While walking past some Halloween decorations:
J: Why do they have to put that stuff around. It is terrifying.

10/9/08
After getting in trouble for hurting his brother:
J: You don't love me.
D: That's not true, I love you very much.
J: You don't love me. That's why I have to live this miserable life.

10/7/08
As we are pulling into the school parking lot for "Movie Night".
J: This isn't the movie theater!
D: I know, the movie is at your school.
J: That's awkward.

9/30/08
J: Mom, who do you want to be on The Beauty and the Beast?
I want to be the cup, Chip.
D: I think I'll be Mrs. Potts, the teapot. She is Chip's mother, you know.
J: Are you sure? She has LOTS of cup children.
D: What's wrong with having lots of children?
J: Then they would cry all the time and be stinky. You would go crazy!
D: Yeah, maybe I should be Belle.

9/28/08
Randomly, as we are driving:
J: Mom, can I have this car when you die?

9/21/08
After giving an Article of Faith at church:
J: I had stage fright, but I kept my cool.

9/12/08
Disclaimer: You will only get this IF you know this rap song and wonder how on earth a 5 year old would know it.

After hearing someone talking about Fifty Cent, the rapper, on the radio: (And, yes, I'm sure his name is spelled incorrectly.)
J: Fifty Cent? What is that?
D: Oh, it is a singer guy.
J: Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Singing: Fifty Cent, back on that gangsta tip....

9/12/08
After just coloring my hair:
D: Jackson, do I look any different?
J: Yes.
D: What part of me looks different?
J: Well, you have a pimple.

8/20/08
When meeting the principal at his new school:
J: Kids have to go in your office when they do bad things.
Principal: You seem like a very nice boy, so I'm sure you won't have to worry about that.
J: We'll see.

8/10/08
During sharing time in church (with 7-8 adults in the room) Jackson raises his hand. The teacher has just told them that watching a bad show could make it harder to feel the Holy Spirit. After he is called on: "My Mommy and Daddy watch bad shows after I go to bed."

8/9/08
While admiring a massive garden at a friends house:
J to the family: "Why do you grow so much food? Are you poor?"

7/29/08
Me: "That boy, Om, in your swimming class looks a lot like Jr."
J: "No, he doesn't."
Me: "Really? I think he does."
J: "Does he speak Spanish?"
Me: "I don't think so."
J: "Does he have black car?"
Me: "No."
J: "Does he like Cars?"
Me: "I'm not sure. I didn't say that he WAS Jr., just that he looks like Jr."
J: "Does he have the same parents?"
Me: "No."
J: "Does he live in MD?"
Me: "No."
J: "See, he doesn't look like Jr."
Me: Maybe you're right.

This morning (7/25/08) Jackson said that he missed Daddy. Daddy called at that moment. This was their conversation.
J: "Daddy, why did you turn off the light last night?"
B: gives explanation of why he turned the light down, not off.
J: Irritated, "Then I say to you, GOOD DAY SIR." The phone is immediately dropped.

This morning's conversation 7/24/08:
Jackson: "I'm going to fart."
Me: "Please don't use that word. In our family we say, toot."
J: "Fart means throw up."
Me: "Actually, it means toot."
J: "Actually, Your mother didn't teach you very well."

After I swerved the smallest little bit while driving the new car, "Um, MAYbe you should get a license."

Randomly, "Are we going to church today?"
My response, "No, it's Tuesday. Why?"
"Hello Mommy, you're wearing make-up."

As we are introducing ourselves to our new neighbors:
"My Mommy is a nice stranger. She believes in Jesus."

Whenever Mommy wore makeup: Whispering to Daddy, "Tell Mommy she is a beautiful princess." Then, after Daddy would say it, Jackson would deny that he had any part of it.

During an argument with Daddy over who was Mommy's boyfriend, "You already had your chance (while pointing to our wedding picture), she is my girlfriend now." 2.5 yrs old